Our COVID19 Response

When home is not the safest space to be yourself, JQY is there. 

Help JQY sustain this lifeline during a time when our teens need it most.


As the world responds to COVID-19 with important safety measures that include staying at home and sheltering in place, it is important to think about the young people who rely on resources outside of their homes to be themselves. LGBTQ teens from Orthodox, Chasidic, and Sephardi/Mizrahi homes are more likely to face homophobia and transphobia in their households. The majority of JQY participants are not yet “out” to their parents. They often rely on their “chosen family” at school, on campus, or at JQY events for the opportunity to be their full authentic selves. The Coronavirus pandemic has temporarily taken away these spaces, and so for these young people, the quarantine at home can present serious challenges, risks, and dangers. JQY crisis and support resources are needed more than ever.

 

JQY VIRTUAL DROP-IN CENTER

JQY is meeting these challenges by making our Drop-in Center completely virtual and accessible even for teens who can not speak out-loud or access video connections at home. Now our Drop-in Center can be accessed by those outside the New York area and is available to teens around the world. Our recent Virtual Drop-in nights have had participants from all over the US, as well as teens from as far as England, Israel, and Brazil! Our youth are now able to tap into a global community of friends, allies, and support.

The JQY Drop-in Center staff (above)

 

JQY CRISIS LINE & ONLINE SUPPORT

Our crisis line, run by specially trained mental health professionals can respond both by voice and text message. Our confidential social media support groups have become an oasis of support where teens can safely connect with friends from around the world. We have been creating and sharing affirmative queer Jewish content that can be accessed at any time, on and offline.

Contact our crisis line at (551)JQY-HOPE (551-579-4673).

 

CLOSE-UP CONVERSATION SERIES

We have recently launched our “Closeup Conversations” series – a special small group initiative where we focus on specific challenges that LGBTQ Jewish youth may face in the Orthodox world. Our message to teens is clear: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

 


JQY relies on the support of our friends, allies, and alumni. The national shut down has made many small nonprofits particularly vulnerable, and JQY is no exception. We have had to cancel all in-person fundraising events and have experienced a significant dip in personal donations. We know that our teens rely upon our programs and therefore stopping any of our crisis resources is simply not an option. We need your help now to ensure that these lifelines remain open and able to meet the needs during these uncertain times. 

A donation to JQY is an invaluable gift to those who need it most, but a donation today would mean that no virus, sickness, or emergency can ever stop unconditional love. Please click here to support our efforts during this time. We thank you for your generosity. 

Click here to find out how to access free Kosher meals in New York City.

JQYU

JQYU is a cross-campus network for LGBTQ Jewish college students. JQYU serves as an umbrella community for queer Jewish campus organizations as well as queer Jewish individual students.


Through JQYU, queer Jewish college students can:

  • Create their own events – create events on and off their own campuses (ex. queer shabbat, pre-finals paint night, tailored support groups, etc) with financial support from JQY
  • Find support  – JQYU participants can call or text the JQY Warmline at 551-JQY-HOPE (551-579-4673) and one of our licensed mental health professionals will respond within 24 hours. They can also sign up for a free mental health consultation here
  • Celebrate queer joy together – If you or someone you know is celebrating a simcha, click here to learn more about our initiative to share more queer joy with the whole JQY community
  • Connect with queer Jews globallyDownload the JQY App to connect with other Jewish queer college students and spread the word about your upcoming events by posting in the Community Bulletin

Apply for a JQYU event microgrant

 

Drop-in Center

The JQY Paul Austin and Dalip Girdhar (The P. Austin Family Foundation) Drop-in Center

The Drop-in Center offers a safe and free weekly space where LGBTQ teens and youth can come and:

  • Check in with licensed social workers
  • Meet others they can relate to
  • Participate in support groups & workshops
  • Borrow a book from our queer Jewish library
  • Have access to health and safety resources
  • Enjoy a hot Kosher meal (PIZZA!)
  • Be part of an affirming community
  • Know they are not alone

Sponsor a Drop-in Evening

Each week, the Drop-in Center features a unique program (support groups, yoga, game night, LGBTQ book club, and more!) which takes place alongside drop-in hours. Feel free to join for the program, hang out during drop-in hours, or both! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more information on our weekly programming!

WHERE  The NYC Drop-in Center is in Times Square and easily accessible by public transportation! If you need help with travel to the Drop-in Center, contact us here.

You will see a sign for JQY and a JQY staff member in the lobby of the building when you arrive.

WHO Open to all LGBTQ Jewish-identified individuals, ages 13-23


CHECK OUT OUR EVENTS PAGE FOR ALL UPCOMING DROP-IN CENTER DATES


For Orthodox Rabbis

JQY Rabbi’s Project

Sometimes LGBTQ Orthodox advocacy and education require a more personal and informal approach than a training or a panel. Some of the most important work is often done in private conversations between small groups of people. This approach is vital when responding to a family or school crisis’s, where interventions for youth must be done quickly and precisely.

To this end, since 2002 JQY has continually run its premiere advocacy program known as The Rabbi’s Project. The way it works is that an Orthodox rabbi or leader is identified, and JQY sends two or three trained JQY members to speak with this rabbi/leader in private. Sometimes this rabbi is a person from a particular JQY member’s past, and sometimes this rabbi is a change maker in the Orthodox community who has influence over the way LGBTQ youth are treated. Often the rabbi is identified because he is involved with a situation that affects an individual JQY member.

  • Rabbi’s Project helping Families: JQY is dedicated to keeping Orthodox families together. When JQY members experience family conflict due to Orthodox issues, JQY connects their families with well informed supportive Orthodox rabbis whom the families can feel comfortable speaking with. Identifying the right Orthodox leader who can best intervene with an individual family issues is an essential part of JQY support. Developing Orthodox Rabbinic connections are a hallmark of JQY’s advocacy work.

Through The Rabbi’s Project JQY members have met with more than 200 Orthodox rabbis in private. The change accomplished has been astronomical. Youth have been accepted back in their families, Orthodox Schools have refrained from expelling LGBTQ students, and organizations have been stopped from running homophobic and transphobic programing.

Demystifying the idea of being Gay and Orthodox and personalizing it with names, faces and stories helps create inroads of tolerance in even the most stringent Orthodox communities. JQY Rabbi’s Project is able to create inroads because the advocacy comes from individuals who come from within the Orthodox community. We help our members arrange meetings with rabbis, former teachers and Orthodox leaders within their own communities.

Rabbi’s Project changes policy and rhetoric: We meet with Orthodox rabbis and leaders all over the country to talk about the sensitivities and needs of LGBT Jews in the Orthodox Community. From Ultra-Orthodox Gedolim like Rabbi Shmuel Kamenetzky to Modern Orthodox Rabbinic leaders like Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb JQY members have met with Rabbis across the spectrum of Orthodoxy. Through our Rabbi’s Project advocacy efforts, JQY led the OU (Orthodox Union) and RCA (Rabbinical Council of America) to withdraw their endorsements of harmful forms of “reparative” therapy, as well as disassociate themselves from Conversion therapy organizations.


For more information about the JQY Rabbi’s Project, or if you would like help speaking with an Orthodox Rabbi or leader about an issue relating to sexual orientation or gender identity contact us.